Strewing for Unschooling Families: How to Offer Interesting Things

In this article, strewing means leaving interesting things where a child is likely to find them, with nothing asked in return. The harder question is whether the act stays free of a hidden agenda, which is the objection this article takes seriously.

What Strewing Means

On Sandra Dodd’s strewing page, the line “I just strew their paths with interesting things” is attributed to Sandra Dodd, with “long ago” and “AOL Homeschooling Board” in the attribution. The page gives no date for this line.

On a second page Dodd writes, “I said it years ago in an AOL discussion and the visual stuck.” That page names no board and gives no calendar date for the discussion, so this is Dodd’s own undated account. Neither page says outright that Dodd coined the word.

Dodd also writes on that same second page, “What I was referring to was leaving things around and changing them out.” On this article’s reading, strewing is a cycle of placing, observing and rotating, not a permanent display.

A Five-Step Method for Starting

1. Keep a Two-Week Observation Log

For two weeks, note once a day what your child picks up without being asked: a book, a tool, a question, a game they repeat. Note where it happened and what was nearby. Place nothing during this time. The log is for watching only. The daily note does not stop when placement begins in step 2; it carries on.

Two weeks is this article’s choice. The interest-led learning article suggests a week, and the self-directed learning article suggests two or three weeks.

2. Set Item Rules

Placement starts only after the two-week log. Then, as this article’s own suggestion, add one to three items a week, mostly cheap or already in the house, such as library books, a pocket notebook or a clipboard. Place each where your child already spends time, guided by the log. For keeping often-used materials within reach, see How to Create a Home Learning Environment Without a Dedicated Room. For supporting an interest with books, outings and materials, see How to Support Interest-Led Learning Without Losing Structure.

Hypothetical and illustrative: if your child keeps returning to the garden wall, a book about snails might sit by the window.

3. Place Items Without Comment

Put the item down and walk away. Do not ask “Have you seen this?”, announce it or mention it at dinner. Do not go back to check on it. Keep the daily note going: record what your child picks up without being asked, placed items included, but do not go looking for them. The one exception is a direct question: answer plainly, as step 5 describes.

4. Treat Being Ignored as Information

An untouched item is not a failure. In this article, “untouched” means no pickup recorded in the daily notes, and “touched” means at least one pickup recorded. At the weekly review, the parent marks each placed item touched or untouched in the log, working from the daily notes rather than by checking. Some pickups may go unrecorded, so an untouched mark shows only that no pickup was recorded. After a week or two, take the untouched items away and rotate in new ones. This matches the “changing them out” in Dodd’s description.

5. Run the Covert-Steering Check

Before adding an item, ask whether you would be comfortable if your child knew exactly what you had put out and why. If the honest answer is no, leave it out. If yes, be ready to answer questions openly: say what the item is, why you chose it, and that it can be ignored or removed.

An Objection Worth Taking Seriously

The objection is Liberatore’s. In a Substack essay dated 21 April 2024, Liberatore writes that strewing “can sometimes feel manipulative”, especially for children who are “especially sensitive to pressure, demands or imbalances of power”. Liberatore adds that for some people it feels less manipulative “because the demands and expectations of a direct question are not present”.

The extension is this article’s own. Liberatore’s point is about how strewing can feel to a child. This article adds that an adult’s choice of what to put out, and where, can steer a child toward what the adult wants even when nothing is asked. In this article’s view, the extended objection is sharpest when strewing is used to get a particular result. The covert-steering check makes that visible in your own decisions, but it does not remove it.

Assumptions

The method assumes time and space to pick things up, and tolerance for items being ignored.

Limitations

This article does not claim that strewing produces particular learning outcomes. The advice rests on reasoning and on the writing cited above, not on research. It does not review the wider research on unschooling.

A Hypothetical Example

This example is hypothetical and illustrative. A child keeps returning to a back step, where woodlice gather under a flowerpot. During the two-week log, the child lifts the pot, watches the woodlice and asks what they eat. The parent notes this in the log and places nothing yet.

After the log, the parent places a library book on woodlice and a pocket notebook on the step, with no comment, and does not go back to check on them. The daily note keeps running. At the weekly review, the daily notes show the notebook used three days after placement, so it is marked touched; the book is marked untouched. If the child asks about it, the parent answers plainly. After a week or two the book returns to the shelf and the notebook stays. At the covert-steering check, the parent would be comfortable explaining what was put out and why.

Next Step: Start an Observation Log

Start the observation log this week, on a single page with these headings:

  • Date
  • What my child picked up without prompting: a book, object, activity or question
  • Where it happened, and what was nearby
  • What I added, with the item and its place (only after the two-week log)
  • Touched or untouched, marked at the weekly review
  • Covert-steering check, answered yes or no, with one line of reasoning

Keep the same page going after placement begins, because the daily entries do not stop.